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DandR4hands4men 51M/50M
480 posts
9/8/2020 11:14 pm
Labors of Love & Lust~Tribute to the 501, the Unicorn & Work!!!

Happy Labor , gentlemen! Yes, I realize I am a late, Billy surprised with one hell of a visit yesterday, and I am just getting to post. And believe it or not, the party is starting to slow down for .

I did make it on here yesterday, and both my post were still readable. The String f Days actually did get a winner with picture 8. However, there is a four-way tie for the Saturday post, so I will hold off on declaring a winner. I do want to thank JustFun1 for popping by, and thank Bjhogan, Dennis21937 and 0NYC for flirting with . And my OP Mister, Motorctyman, and my OP boyfriend, Crskyler, for spending part of the holiday with .

So, I was a sex party Sunday, and I saw, and yes, played with someone I knew from my heyday. Outside of some amazing relationships and my three marriages, this may well have been the happiest time of my life.

I would consider the reign of the "True African Queen" to be about a year period, running from 1992 to 2003, and somehow, even with working one and usually two jobs, I still managed to drop a couple of hundred thousand during this span, a true testament to work hard, but play harder, and I had one hell of a time!

This is something of a local read, and a fairly long one. So if you were part of the Indianapolis gay community during this time, you probably know me, saw me or the very least, heard of . Daxter3, I can practically guarantee you will remember me! Now, to protect some of the parties involved, the names have been used in such a way that not everyone will know of your involvement, but you will know if you are reading about yourself. Strippers names instead of real names, variations on real names, that will be obvious when you figure it out, and if you or I wouldn't care, your name is here. Shall we begin? lol


My legacy probably started at NYC, where I wasn't only known as the"True African Queen," but also a dancing queen! The deejay seem to put all my tunes together, and they would give me space on the dance floor for thirty minutes or so to do my thing! Here, stories began about me. The three nights I spent with a local television news anchor, the "Forest Gump" episode involving Robert and his two , so on. I was crushing on a regular customer in the store I managed the time, and he was feeling me too, but neither of us did anything about it...until Brian, a bartender there, thought we would get along and put us together, and although it would be years later and another bar before Andy and I would make real progress, it was a very pleasant evening, and the dynamic between us changed after that. We are still cool to this . But I digress. There was Shep, the sexy cocktail waiter I would eventually fall for make a proposal to...two weeks before he was to move. We are still on good terms as well. But probably the most notorious is the story of Rick, a sexy ass bartender the bar. Early on, I ordered a drink from him, gave him a fifty and told him to keep the change. When he inquired about the tip, I informed him that my was on the bill, if he wanted it. He put the fifty in his pocket and for my cocktail of his tip jar. I didn't know the time that his other half, also worked in the bar. Long story short, I got more than I bargained for, and still didn't get what I wanted...Rick became a dear friend and poker buddy, and his ex, is now my sister in the name of Dynasty! We were both huge fans of the show, and my wardrobe was fashioned after it, accounting for my big ass. Think if Dorothy from the Golden Girls was a rich character in Dynasty! lol


Another thing seem to be, If I stopped being a regular at a bar for any reason, if would closing soon. This seem to be the case with NYC, Jimmy's, Brothers, Oz. Jaguar's, and Utopia, to name a few. I followed my favorite bartenders to their next employment venue, stalked a few guys into new places to hang and such. I was actually and literally dragged into Betty Boops, and fell madly in lust with the late night bartender at Tubes video bar. This became my favorite bar and I learned to go every night of the week. Usually I would stop going only when I was seeing someone, and Tubes became a victim of my curse.

The decades I spent Metro started relatively tamed, and I was a man of many talents there...customer, cook, barback, bouncer, doorguy, entertainer, co-host of a weekly game show, honorary member of the Court, master drinker and ruler of the dance floor. My main reputation was for being a hard worker, one hell of a drinker and the "nice" bouncer, but the talents of my mouth, kissing and otherwise, started to get some attention. It was also here that my obsession, support and fascination with strippers was born. And although my legend as a make-out artist would follow me to this , only a few chosen customers and several of the strippers would learn of my other skills, in restroom or patio encounters. And I would end up spending way more than I was making, following the chests of Wolf, Craig and Cowboy, the asses of Jimmy and Tyler, the kisses of Conrad and Darius and the cocks of Kevin, Maverick, Justin, Hart, Mac and Zack. In fact, one of these guys would beg me to come to his regular gig. I would learn that although Metro gave the strippers a base plus tips, his regular gig was strictly tips. And since Metro is the only one still open, I will leave the stories there to a minimum! lol


This would be when the "True African Queen" started to become less of a lady! The place was called The Unicorn Club and it was a stripper joint. Metro, we might have strippers two or three nights a week, and I might only like half of the five or guys they had. the Unicorn, they had strippers every night, 8, , sometimes more than twenty, so enjoying half of them was a whole lot more. And it wasn't long before I was there four, five, nights a week, closing the place.

It was difficult, but not impossible to misbehave there. There was always the restroom, but it seemed you could only get to other patrons there. You could get some tasty appetizers at the main stage or the shower stage...just remember to tip well enough that they remember you when they get off the stage. And then there was that dark section of the bar, where friendly strippers really tried to earn good tips. Of course, a lot of that was altered when they started letting females in.

But I loved the boys, and most of them liked me and my . I had no problem doing body shots on them, getting them tipsy if they were part of my nightly party, bribing patrons of their clothes on occasion, whatever I wanted pretty much, I either for or the strippers made it happen for . And by now, our time together was not limited to the bar. I would take some to eat after the bar closed. Sometimes we had parties at one of their places, and a few of those might have been private. A few may have made it to my place to do some landscaping, be my driver for the , or give a rubdown...what they did then would be an insult to what I do now. lol I was making car payments, mortgage payments, paying support, buying groceries, making their lives easier because they were making mine so much more fun! This was on top of the hundreds, sometimes more than a thousand bucks a night I was spending at the bar. Honestly, if I hadn't moved to Missouri for work, I'd probably still be ding it...well, probably cheaper since the bar is now closed, I would just keep some of my favorites around.


And I did have favorites, and slowly the legacy of a lady was tainted. I would say I dated one for four years, and was severely obsessed with another. I earned the nickname "Rim Remy" when I made a stripper climax on stage by eating his ass . I actually started going to one bath house because that's where the strippers went who couldn't or wouldn't go home. And the Rim Remy name was cemented with a series of screaming and climaxing bottoms in my suite. Now my reputation at the bath house was as seedy as the one at the bar. I became infatuated with the asses of Shaun, both Alexes, Todd, Matt, Kyle and Steven. In awe of the chests of Kyler, Christian, Jayrock and JT and enthralled with the cocks of Mason, Alex, Caesar, Gabor, Kai, Gavin, Shawn and Jayrock. And because these guys wanted tips enough to be friendly, I grew in lust with the kisses and interactions with Devin, Alex, Patrick, Todd and Mike. I even started searching for them at the bath house, where I finally got lucky with Damon, Jonathan, a few of its employees, some more than once, and several employees of other bars, expanding the grasp of my reputation. I actually still have a weak spot for strippers to this , and for some reason, I see my semi-retirement looking a lot like this period in my life. LOL

My descent into the abyss of this life continued as I finally made myself go into the scariest, shadiest, seediest, raunchiest, most fun gay bar in the city...the 501! Actually, I can't take for that. My boss at the time had gone in and seen this sexy ass bartender working there and wanted me to see him. The bar had a reputation that scared the hell of , so I was in no rush to go. And after two weeks of waiting for my assessment, my boss gave me the night off, with , plus twenty bucks to cover my drinks, if I went in right then. That bartender was the dreamiest fucking I had laid eye on up until that point, and he was friendly and fun! Hint...if I am tipping one hundred percent, having a great time and you are doing well! So much like NYC and the Unicorn, the 501 was frequently one of those nights. This bartender would become a very dear friend, his other half, who also worked there, became my best friend, and a small circle of their friends, mostly patrons and employees of the bar, had me at that bar almost every night of the week. There were even nights when I would start off at Metro, for work or play, go to the Unicorn for company for the evening and try to get back to the 501 before last , since I knew there was going to end up being an after party happening somewhere some point.


In addition to the "True African Queen" and "Rim Remy," more nicknames would be attributed to me. Like "Kisseyface," because of the makeout sessions I had with several of the guys as my hello greetings upon my or their arrival. Or "Rich Bitch" because of the way I dressed and carried myself, and came off of when I was having a good time, but always finicky about who I spent time and on. But most often, I was "The Instigator," as I was known for using my for getting the party started...getting guys of their clothes with shots and drinks on Undie Mondays, my favorite night to be there. On a bad night, we could get a body on the bar to do shots off of. A great night could be sex, sex on a pool table, strip poker, strip darts, strip pool, restroom or dark room encounters, and maybe even some outdoor play.

This became my home bar, and I did whatever I could to help it out. I was the door guy or the coat check guy when they needed one. I wrote some of the questions and even was a co-host on game show nights. I was a judge for a lot of the contest, and yes, my vote or support could be influenced. lol Mostly, I was the unofficial bouncer during the week when there wasn't one on the clock.

I don't think there was an inch of that place I didn't have a story or three for. My shoving ice in a guy ass at the bar, and then sucking them out. Or me using dicks as drink stirrers for my personal cocktails. Even the damn ladies room has a story in it for me. Friends who became with benefits after a night at the bar with me. It was a fabulous place, until changes came. The biggest one being that it was not limited to just men anymore...Seems to be a theme Indy bar owners....if you cater to gay men, in a perhaps sexual manner, stay in that lane! We are just too much for most!!! But when it was kicking, damn, it was kicking!


And to finish off my Labor , I wanted to homage to some of the hunks, bad boys and sexy studs I've worked with in my life. Kent, James, Fred, Allan and two Steves, all in Kansas City, Missouri. Marc, Mark, Sexy Sam, Troy, Chuck and Blake in Saint Louis. To the cast and crew of Code Bar and the guys of the Flamingo Resort in St. Petersburg, Florida. Here in Indy, Jay so sorry we left it the all talk and no action phase! John from Hills Department Store, my first husband saved your ass! lol Eric from the Census Bureau, and Jason, Phillip and Osman from the 's Museum. Chris, John and Jeff from Reliable Drug Store, a good third of the customers Friendly Foods, my fun and dirty dozen patrons at the liquor store...glad that wasn't caught on camera! My boys at KFC...Steve, Joe, Jim, and Kent...thank you guys for knowing, and letting it change nothing! You guys set a standard for me that went to all my other public sector employment...if it wasn't cool with who I was, they didn't deserve to have me! And to my homies at Shoney's...Jeff, Jack, Nicholas, Reed, Jon and David, one of you I did have an amazing encounter with, and no, it was not my D&D husband, unfortunately! lol

And from those I worked with to those I worked on...my biggest surprise, Tim, you were so much hotter than I expected you to be, and would to get you on this table again. Biggest disappointment...your husband, only because he wasn't the same husband you were with when we met, But I would love to do a couple's session with the two of you. If you read this, write me for a discount! While on the subject, Ryan, same deal for you and your husband as well. You win best kisser, but I think it could have been more if Dee wasn't in the way. Maybe if the third person in the room is your husband, it would be a hell of a lot more fun! And for all the pretense, I know who you both are! For best body, Skyler my military guy, but you know how I love body hair, so in that sense, it would be Osman, and with the combination of the two, I will go with newcomer Todd. Best cock has to be Kendall, and almost all of these guys have wonderful asses.

Now remember for Labor , I went with people I worked with or on, not those working it, so Stephane, Billy, Sawyer, Big and Little Mike and Little Dan can only counting in this honorable mention!

Now, if you excuse me, I have a cutie patootie doing booty duty on his birthday. Tutti Frutti!!! And, yes, he is an honorable mention. lol


SwishNSwallow2 32M/34M
4725 posts
9/9/2020 3:04 pm

Remy, your Labor Day Weekend was completely and without a doubt, full for you.
Ricky and I always enjoy you sharing the hot happenings from your part of the world.
This was definitely an example😎


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:22 am:
SWishNSwallow, Ricky and Connor, you guys have always been awesome to me...lovely sweethearts! If you find yourself in my part of the universe, allow me a chance to show you two a damn good time!

SwishNSwallow2 32M/34M
4725 posts
9/9/2020 3:05 pm

If I were still on the prowl, number two got my glance more than once.👌👍


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:23 am:
Your vote has been cast, and he is one of my tops as well!

SwishNSwallow2 32M/34M
4725 posts
9/9/2020 3:10 pm

Ricky gasped at number five, followed by a "holy moley"!👍😁!!


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:25 am:
Good for you, Ricky! Your vote has been tabulated as well!

SwishNSwallow2 32M/34M
4725 posts
9/9/2020 3:16 pm

And to be fair, the fourth one, too. If he haf dark hair, he would have been the winner! Haha!👍😎


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:27 am:
Another one of my favorites, he has been counted for us as well!

Eyes4You2See 28M
479 posts
9/9/2020 6:40 pm

This snapped me back to life. I will make it easy. The third one. Don't move. All I need is an address!


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:28 am:
Now my tops three all have votes...thank you very much!

SalvoAvonBuxton 27M
2543 posts
9/9/2020 8:20 pm

    Quoting Eyes4You2See:
    This snapped me back to life. I will make it easy. The third one. Don't move. All I need is an address!


Tyler, in realty, wouldn't that be perfect !!


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:30 am:
Hey sexy! I'm not sure if that counts as a vote or not, but thank you for spending some time with us!!!

Hungr4Yungr 71M
5679 posts
9/9/2020 8:29 pm

Great summation of your life, Remy.

As for my choice of the men pictured, I would go with #2.


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:34 am:
Thank you very much, Hungr4yungr! It was definitely a fun period in my life, top seven for sure, possibly top five! Your vote has been cast as well!

atakkeba 84M/M
111 posts
9/9/2020 11:42 pm

liked the one with full of bush around


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:35 am:
I hope that was number five, where your vote went. Thank you very much!

jrodd 61M
3603 posts
9/10/2020 6:58 am

No robots?


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:36 am:
Sorry...but there is a Rob here. Lol

lcd24a 66M
170 posts
9/10/2020 5:08 pm

Nice pics especially the second one,love his cock,story is long will keep reading.


DandR4hands4men replies on 9/15/2020 8:38 am:
I did warn you it was a fairly long read, lol, but your vote has been counted! Thank you

romanticXscort 50M
56 posts
9/15/2020 7:35 pm

I love ginger...number four!